Ways To Build Self-Confidence in Children


Building self-confidence in your kids can be hard, especially if you struggle with confidence yourself. These are the best ways to build self-confidence in children. Learning how to instill confidence in your kids will make you a more confident parent!

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Listen to Their Ideas

When kids feel heard, they feel like what they say is valuable. Take the time to listen to all your child’s ideas, even if they seem outlandish. Listening to your kid is one of the easiest ways to build their confidence. 

Recognize Small Wins

When your children have small successes, take note and let them know you see them. Too often, we tell our children what to do or what mistakes they’re making and forget that this can have a detrimental impact on their self-esteem. Take time to point out the small things like putting the dishes away, brushing teeth for the night, or cleaning up after themselves. Pointing out your child’s successes can make them feel seen.

Cook Together

Cooking as a family can help your children build vital skills that they will use for the rest of their lives. Cooking can help your children learn problem-solving skills and build their confidence. Cooking together is a great way to bond with your family and build your child’s ability to take care of themselves. Spending time together in the kitchen is an important way to encourage your child’s skills.

Take Mistakes in Stride

It can be easy to lose your temper when your child makes a mistake, but try a calmer approach. Recognize the mistake as a normal part of life and ask your child how you can solve the problem together. Mistakes are a part of life, and solving them together will help your child learn that mistakes happen.

Compliment Your Children

Your children can learn to retrain their brains to say positive things about themselves if they have a good example. Compliment your children’s good qualities almost excessively, and they will begin to see those good qualities in themselves. Complimenting your child can help them develop a strong sense of self-esteem. 

Encourage Risk-Taking

It may seem a bit scary, but encouraging your children to take risks can be highly rewarding. You don’t have to encourage your children to take up dangerous hobbies; instead, encourage risks like trying new foods, talking to new friends, and starting a new sport. Encourage healthy risk-taking in your children, and they will begin to build confidence. Taking a chance on a new activity can be scary, but when your child takes the chance and succeeds, they will begin to believe that they can do anything they put their mind to. Encouraging your child to try new things is one of the best ways to build self-confidence in children.

With these simple ways to build self-confidence in children, you’ll be on your way to being a better parent. Make the time to listen to your kids, and they will grow exponentially.  Take time to truly encourage your children, and they will feel seen and heard. A self-confident child is a happy child. 

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