I Said I Had No Regrets After My Divorce. I Lied.

Content note: This post discusses divorce, financial abuse, emotional distress, and the challenges of single parenting.

For a long time, if someone asked me whether I had any regrets after my divorce, I would say no.

No regrets.

I survived. I kept my house. I kept my kids. I figured out how to pay the bills, work multiple jobs, and keep a household running while raising three children.

I’m also going to graduate school, working toward a future in mental health counseling. I’m trying to build a career, invest in my future, and create a life that looks different from the one I had before. All while parenting three children who are no longer little kids, but teenagers and young adults who are still learning how to navigate the world.

But recently, I’ve realized there is one thing I deeply regret.

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Supporting Grieving Families: Thoughtful Approaches to Funeral Planning

Funeral planning often begins when a family is tired, emotional, and facing decisions they never expected to make so quickly. Support during this time should feel calm and practical, with space for each person to process the loss in their own way. Some relatives may want to talk through every detail, while others may struggle to choose anything at all. Clear information, patient communication and access to grief counseling can help families move through the immediate days without feeling pressured or overlooked.

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7 Self-Care Habits for Moms With Busy Schedules

From the moment you wake up, there’s rarely a quiet moment for yourself. Kids shout for help getting dressed in the morning, work is full of stressful conversations, and the TV blares all night long. Self-care doesn’t demand an afternoon away or an elaborate ritual. For moms, the most useful self-care habits fit around family responsibilities.

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Practical Financial Planning Tips for Single Parents

A single-parent household often relies on one income to cover everyday costs, unexpected bills, and long-term goals. A practical financial plan can help you decide where each dollar should go while leaving some room for the surprises that come with raising children.

Start with the numbers you have today, even if your income, custody arrangements, or expenses may change. You can update the plan as life settles into a more predictable pattern.

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Navigating Divorce: Protecting Your Financial Future

Divorce can change your financial life long after the legal process ends. Early organization helps you understand what you own, what you owe and which decisions may affect your future income. Since property rules and tax effects vary, advice should come from qualified legal, financial and tax professionals who understand your circumstances. The steps below can help you prepare for those conversations and keep essential details from getting lost during a stressful time.

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9 Things To Check Before Updating an Older Fence

An older fence can make your yard look tired, but that doesn’t always mean you need to replace the whole thing. Some sections may still have years of useful life left, while other areas need attention now. Knowing what to check before updating an older fence helps you spend your time and budget where they’ll make the biggest difference. It can also help you create a backyard that works better for your family.

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How to Know You Are Ready for a Serious Relationship After Divorce

Someone 8 months out of a 14-year marriage feels a pull towards company. That pull is indistinguishable from the pull towards a partner, and acting on it early tends to reproduce the marriage that ended. Loneliness and readiness produce the same urge and require opposite responses. The signals that separate them are known, and none of them involve how much time has passed.

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