Never say this to a Stay at Home Parent

“Must be nice!” This comment really gets under my skin. Just in general it screams, you’re privileged and I’m not, you just get everything handed to you and I have to suffer, in general, it’s just an extremely rude comment to make about anything but especially a comment to a stay-at-home mom, or stay at home working mom/parent. It alludes to the idea that what that mom/parent does at home doesn’t carry much value & that they’re basically flaking off all responsibility because they’re at home. Well, to be fair, it’s the tone and often snarky insinuation that accompanies the comment. As if the person stating the comment is the hardest worker in the entire world while the person at home is just binge-watching shows & eating bonbons. Here are some hard facts…

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How Parents Can Help During the College Recruiting Process

Having a talented child in the athletic world is a blessing and a curse. It’s wonderful that it gives them multiple opportunities to further their education after high school. Still, it also leads to ruthless tactics by college recruiters to get their name on the dotted line. Understanding how parents can help during the college recruiting process is the first step to take on the long, winding road that ends with your child’s letter of acceptance.

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Things To Know When Caring for a Preemie

Premature births do happen, and they’re becoming more common these days. As more infants today are born early, even more, parents need to prepare themselves for what to expect as preemie parents. First, don’t be afraid to ask your doctor what you should know when caring for a preemie now; that way, you and your partner can prepare.

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Same as it ever was NOTHING is the Same 

Where do you see yourself in two years? If I was asked that question two years ago I could have never imagined I’d be where I am today or be the person that I am today. I was in my 18th year of marriage and a stay-at-home mom for 16 years who had established a satisfying routine and rhythm to life.  Then in the course of a few months, everything changed. I found myself living through three life-altering events simultaneously, financial trauma, divorce, and a new job working full-time outside of the home all while raising 3 kids and running a household. I suddenly didn’t recognize my life, I felt like I’d been tossed into a relay race mid-race with no instructions during a category 4 hurricane while eating ghost peppers. To say I was outside of my comfort zone was definitely an understatement.  In order to find my way I needed to take back control, be open to change, and remind myself that life is meant to be enjoyed.

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