Life after divorce can feel like learning to walk again. It’s a path full of complex emotions and big questions about what comes next. While ending a marriage is tough, it also starts a new chapter, one you get to write for yourself. Rebuilding your life is a process, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time.
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Money Mistakes That Complicate Divorce Later
Divorce already asks a lot from your patience, and money choices made under stress tend to echo longer than expected. Some people rush to protect themselves, and others avoid finances because every account feels emotionally charged. The hardest part is that small decisions made early can shape property division and everyday stability after the paperwork ends. That is why money mistakes that complicate divorce later are worth catching before they create a second wave of problems.
Read moreDating after Divorce
Dating, simply hearing the word makes me cringe. The anxiety, body image issues, self-deprecating internal dialogue, and the endless list of unwritten rules associated with the word. And to think, those were all concerns I had back when I was 20 years old. It was tough enough dating back in 2000 when people still approached one another in public. When I had a 20-year-old’s body, energy, and brain, well, perhaps not the brain.
Read moreDivorce on the Table?
Let me preface this by saying, I have always admired and vastly appreciated the community on this blog, the ability to allow moms/parents to state their opinions freely and without cause for ridicule or strict judgment has always made this space a special one. There are not many communities like us left…communities where we listen to one another, perhaps have opposite viewpoints but are still genuinely respectful to one another. Please know that your maturity, intellect, kindness, and compassion for your fellow man, including myself are much appreciated. Here we CONNECT…it doesn’t matter your religion, political stance, or who your partner is, we’ve reached common, compassionate ground and for that I THANK YOU. Thank you for allowing me to share my story freely. Likewise if ever any one of you wish to share your story please email, momonthegoinholytoledo@gmail.com.
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