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I Said I Had No Regrets After My Divorce. I Lied.

October 10, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Content note: This post discusses divorce, financial abuse, emotional distress, and the challenges of single parenting.

For a long time, if someone asked me whether I had any regrets after my divorce, I would say no.

No regrets.

I survived. I kept my house. I kept my kids. I figured out how to pay the bills, work multiple jobs, and keep a household running while raising three children.

I’m also going to graduate school, working toward a future in mental health counseling. I’m trying to build a career, invest in my future, and create a life that looks different from the one I had before. All while parenting three children who are no longer little kids, but teenagers and young adults who are still learning how to navigate the world.

But recently, I’ve realized there is one thing I deeply regret.

How to Know You Are Ready for a Serious Relationship After Divorce

September 23, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Someone 8 months out of a 14-year marriage feels a pull towards company. That pull is indistinguishable from the pull towards a partner, and acting on it early tends to reproduce the marriage that ended. Loneliness and readiness produce the same urge and require opposite responses. The signals that separate them are known, and none of them involve how much time has passed.

When Co-Parenting Becomes a Conflict Battleground

September 15, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Co-parenting is supposed to give kids stability and love from both parents after a split. But for some families, it just turns into a never-ending fight. When disagreements go way beyond normal parenting differences and become a constant cycle of hostility, manipulation, and stress, you’ve landed in a high-conflict co-parenting situation.

This kind of environment is totally draining for you and, more importantly, really tough on your children. Spotting the signs and knowing how to protect yourself and your kids is the first step toward finding some peace.

Understanding Your Rights in Family Matters

September 10, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Family structures often change, and knowing where you stand legally during these shifts is crucial for protecting yourself and your children. Family law provides a way to resolve disagreements and set clear paths for the future. Every situation is different, but understanding the basics can help you feel more ready and in control during what’s often a tough time. This knowledge helps you speak up for what’s best for your family.

How to Divide Assets Fairly During a Divorce

September 4, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Dividing shared property is often one of the most challenging aspects of ending a marriage. It involves untangling years of combined finances, which can feel both emotionally and logistically overwhelming. Creating a clear and fair plan for asset division is a critical step toward securing your financial future and moving forward. This guide provides a structured approach to help you through the process.

What to Know About Child Custody and Financial Planning

September 3, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Separation or divorce brings two significant challenges: establishing child custody and reorganizing your finances. These two areas are not separate issues; they are deeply intertwined. Creating a stable, supportive environment for your children during and after this transition depends heavily on clear, thoughtful financial planning. A solid financial strategy can reduce conflict, provide security, and ensure your children’s needs are consistently met.

Keeping Divorce Costs Down

August 26, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Navigating the end of a marriage is tough enough emotionally, and the financial strain can add a huge layer of stress. While the costs can feel overwhelming, you actually have more control over the final bill than you might think. By making smart choices and focusing on working together, you can manage expenses and protect your financial future. This guide will walk you through practical ways to keep divorce costs down.

Divorce Without Courtroom Drama

August 18, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

When a marriage ends, the path forward can feel overwhelming. Many people fear a long, drawn-out court battle, imagining stress, expense, and emotional turmoil. But divorce doesn’t have to mean declaring war. There’s a more collaborative and peaceful way to separate that prioritizes dignity and a stable future for everyone involved, especially children.

Understanding Alimony and Spousal Support Basics

August 16, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Navigating the end of a marriage means untangling many parts of a shared life. Finances are among the most complex and stressful aspects of handling a divorce. When one spouse has relied on the other financially, figuring out how they’ll support themselves becomes a major concern. This is where alimony, also known as spousal support, comes in. Understanding the basics can help make the process clearer and provide a path forward during a challenging time.

Dividing Marital Property Fairly During Divorce

August 14, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Going through a divorce is one of life’s toughest transitions, and figuring out how to divide shared property just adds another layer of stress. The whole process can feel overwhelming, but understanding the basics can help you approach it with more confidence and clarity. This guide breaks down what you need to know about splitting marital property, so you can work towards a fair outcome.