I Said I Had No Regrets After My Divorce. I Lied.

October 10, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Content note: This post discusses divorce, financial abuse, emotional distress, and the challenges of single parenting.

For a long time, if someone asked me whether I had any regrets after my divorce, I would say no.

No regrets.

I survived. I kept my house. I kept my kids. I figured out how to pay the bills, work multiple jobs, and keep a household running while raising three children.

I’m also going to graduate school, working toward a future in mental health counseling. I’m trying to build a career, invest in my future, and create a life that looks different from the one I had before. All while parenting three children who are no longer little kids, but teenagers and young adults who are still learning how to navigate the world.

But recently, I’ve realized there is one thing I deeply regret.

Supporting Grieving Families: Thoughtful Approaches to Funeral Planning

October 9, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Funeral planning often begins when a family is tired, emotional, and facing decisions they never expected to make so quickly. Support during this time should feel calm and practical, with space for each person to process the loss in their own way. Some relatives may want to talk through every detail, while others may struggle to choose anything at all. Clear information, patient communication and access to grief counseling can help families move through the immediate days without feeling pressured or overlooked.

7 Self-Care Habits for Moms With Busy Schedules

October 9, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

From the moment you wake up, there’s rarely a quiet moment for yourself. Kids shout for help getting dressed in the morning, work is full of stressful conversations, and the TV blares all night long. Self-care doesn’t demand an afternoon away or an elaborate ritual. For moms, the most useful self-care habits fit around family responsibilities.

When Co-Parenting Becomes a Conflict Battleground

September 15, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Co-parenting is supposed to give kids stability and love from both parents after a split. But for some families, it just turns into a never-ending fight. When disagreements go way beyond normal parenting differences and become a constant cycle of hostility, manipulation, and stress, you’ve landed in a high-conflict co-parenting situation.

This kind of environment is totally draining for you and, more importantly, really tough on your children. Spotting the signs and knowing how to protect yourself and your kids is the first step toward finding some peace.

Toledo Fall Guide 2026

September 12, 2026September 12, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Omg, y’all it’s almost legit Fall!! Bring on the Pumpkin Spice Latte (PSL), boots, flannels, sweaters, apple picking, pumpkin patches, pumpkin pies, apple pies, cinnamon & sugar doughnuts, apple fritters, fall festivals, corn mazes, hayrides, and so much more! Fall is when the Midwest shines, but don’t blink, it goes by fast, so tag friends and make plans now! Here is this year’s Toledo Fall Family Fun Guide….

It is always advisable to double-check that nothing has changed before visiting any orchard, farm, or other location.

Gust Brother’s Pumpkin Farm

He Paid. I’m Parenting. The System Is Holding My Money.

September 11, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

I just want to TAG OUT.

Seriously. I want to be able to turn to someone and say, “What do you think we should do?” I want to console another person. I want someone to console me. I want my person.

Understanding Your Rights in Family Matters

September 10, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Family structures often change, and knowing where you stand legally during these shifts is crucial for protecting yourself and your children. Family law provides a way to resolve disagreements and set clear paths for the future. Every situation is different, but understanding the basics can help you feel more ready and in control during what’s often a tough time. This knowledge helps you speak up for what’s best for your family.

How to Help Kids Adjust When They’re Moving Between Two Homes

September 9, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

When your child splits their time between two homes, even an ordinary weekly routine can feel unfamiliar at first. Different bedrooms, schedules, and household rules can leave children feeling unsettled, particularly in the early stages of separation or divorce. As a parent, you can make the adjustment easier by giving them consistency, reassurance, and a sense of belonging in both homes. A thoughtful co-parenting approach helps children know what to expect and, more importantly, reminds them that they have a secure place with both parents.

How Parents Can Support Students in Their Community

September 4, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

You want kids in your community to have the support they need, but knowing where your help will matter most isn’t always obvious. Schools and families face different challenges, and a well-intentioned effort may miss what young people truly need. If you’re wondering how you can support students in your community, start by getting closer to the people who understand those needs firsthand. From there, you can turn your concern into support that fits naturally into family life.

How to Divide Assets Fairly During a Divorce

September 4, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Dividing shared property is often one of the most challenging aspects of ending a marriage. It involves untangling years of combined finances, which can feel both emotionally and logistically overwhelming. Creating a clear and fair plan for asset division is a critical step toward securing your financial future and moving forward. This guide provides a structured approach to help you through the process.