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I Said I Had No Regrets After My Divorce. I Lied.

October 10, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Content note: This post discusses divorce, financial abuse, emotional distress, and the challenges of single parenting.

For a long time, if someone asked me whether I had any regrets after my divorce, I would say no.

No regrets.

I survived. I kept my house. I kept my kids. I figured out how to pay the bills, work multiple jobs, and keep a household running while raising three children.

I’m also going to graduate school, working toward a future in mental health counseling. I’m trying to build a career, invest in my future, and create a life that looks different from the one I had before. All while parenting three children who are no longer little kids, but teenagers and young adults who are still learning how to navigate the world.

But recently, I’ve realized there is one thing I deeply regret.

Supporting Grieving Families: Thoughtful Approaches to Funeral Planning

October 9, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Funeral planning often begins when a family is tired, emotional, and facing decisions they never expected to make so quickly. Support during this time should feel calm and practical, with space for each person to process the loss in their own way. Some relatives may want to talk through every detail, while others may struggle to choose anything at all. Clear information, patient communication and access to grief counseling can help families move through the immediate days without feeling pressured or overlooked.

7 Self-Care Habits for Moms With Busy Schedules

October 9, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

From the moment you wake up, there’s rarely a quiet moment for yourself. Kids shout for help getting dressed in the morning, work is full of stressful conversations, and the TV blares all night long. Self-care doesn’t demand an afternoon away or an elaborate ritual. For moms, the most useful self-care habits fit around family responsibilities.

How to Know You Are Ready for a Serious Relationship After Divorce

September 23, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Someone 8 months out of a 14-year marriage feels a pull towards company. That pull is indistinguishable from the pull towards a partner, and acting on it early tends to reproduce the marriage that ended. Loneliness and readiness produce the same urge and require opposite responses. The signals that separate them are known, and none of them involve how much time has passed.

He Paid. I’m Parenting. The System Is Holding My Money.

September 11, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

I just want to TAG OUT.

Seriously. I want to be able to turn to someone and say, “What do you think we should do?” I want to console another person. I want someone to console me. I want my person.

Creative Ways to Celebrate Milestones on a Budget

August 27, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Celebrating your family’s big moments is one of life’s greatest joys. From birthdays and graduations to anniversaries and personal achievements, these milestones truly deserve to be honored. But sometimes, the pressure to throw a huge, expensive party can overshadow the happiness of the occasion itself. The good news is you don’t need a massive budget to create a truly memorable and meaningful celebration. With a bit of creativity and planning, you can honor your loved ones in style without causing financial stress.

3 Signs Your Work Has Caused Permanent Hearing Loss

August 25, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

Most people expect to deal with hearing loss as they get older in life. It’s one of the various things that happen to our bodies as we age, but non-age-related hearing loss is equally common. You can sort of accept age-related hearing loss as part of life, but it’s much harder to come to terms with when you struggle to hear in your 30s, 40s, 50s, etc.

Signs an Aging Parent May Need a Cognitive Test

August 25, 2026August 25, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

No one likes to think that their parent is struggling or that they’re not the person they once were when they were growing up. But sadly, as we get older, our bodies go through many changes, and the decline in certain areas of health can impact how people are able to live and function each day.

When you’re caring for an ageing parent, knowing the signs that they might need help, specifically cognitive assistance, means you can help them out rather than leave them to struggle.

Here are a few signs to look out for.

Boosting Family Confidence Through Personal Well-being

August 18, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

As parents, we often hear the airplane oxygen mask analogy: put on your own mask before helping others. It might be a bit of a cliché, but the core message really is true. Our personal well-being isn’t something we get to enjoy only after everyone else’s needs are met; it’s actually the foundation for a happy, confident family. When we feel good about ourselves, that positive energy naturally spreads, influencing our partners and children in powerful ways.

Navigating Co-Parenting: Your Child’s First Year After Divorce

August 13, 2026August 13, 2026momonthegoinholytoledo

The first year after a divorce can feel a bit like trying to build a new airplane while you’re already flying it. When kids are in the picture, things get even trickier. You’re not just piecing your own life back together; you’re also helping your children get used to a completely new family setup. This guide offers some practical steps to help you and your former partner create a healthy co-parenting dynamic during that crucial first year.